Oh Mel, I have completely missed her off my tree, I had her down as Sarah from that family ( well the name does reappear endless times in that group of relatives, and NO it was not a senior moment, or at least I hope not.
So now it all makes sense. She was my mothers cousin and shared the same christian names as my mother and their grandmother.
At least I know that she ended up in the 60's in Brierfield as as the wife of Willie Burrows on Garden St, I only got the wrong name
, could have been a more confusing mistake I suppose.
Thanks for the help again.